A few years back my s/o and I were having some real problems in our relationship and in our bed. I had tried talking with her about it and getting books together and pretty much everything you can imagine before just giving up.
That’s when I found Seanlai’s Too Wild Orchids (Now SEXUnSHAMED).
I was instantly captivated by the sultry voice of Seanlai and her words and views on the subject plagued my mind. I went back and listened to every episode and was amazed that there were other people, even women, who had the same thoughts and desires as me and finally I wasn’t the “freak” I had been made out to be and I was ok.
I reached out through email to the show a few times and can remember the feeling when she would discuss my questions with her then co-host of both arousal and appreciation. Over the years I’ve talked personally with Seanlai on a few occasions and her insight has always been incredibly helpful, a little flirty and super understanding and warm.
She has even helped guide me to find who I truly am as a sexual being, and provide me with a little insight in to the female mind.  She is a woman who cares deeply about the people she consults with and I will forever be grateful to call her my friend.

I have known Seanlai for many years and have come to respect her in so many ways. When my partner and I began having problems I immediately went to her for help. My partner, new to talking about his feelings, was put immediately at ease by Sean’s open, honest, candid nature.

Sometimes we don’t need a sugarcoated lollipop. Sometimes we need someone who makes you remember who you want to be. That is who Sean is, she is a self-love liberator. I can’t recommend her enough to struggling couples or singles.

I heard you speak in a session last year in a conference (Pod Fest? I can’t remember.) I was totally fascinated by your topic, because I have never EVER heard anyone discuss sex so openly — and so many topics. I have listened to a few, they definitely were super interesting and funny.

I wanted to say that I love what you’re doing, and I think it’s super brave to have changed things with such a big following. I bet you will attract so many more people, because the title and topic are so clear now. That’s so cool about the growth of your Facebook group, too!

Can you please keep me up on the dates of the seminars, retreats for the couples and the one for the ladies only? I found you to be so captivating and you managed to open up a place inside myself I keep very buttoned up for fear of not being heard or understood. It was scary but at the same time so refreshing to have someone really seem to know my person and how I communicate thank you for cracking open that very sealed tight door.

Congrats on doing great work. We don’t really know each other, don’t think we’ve actually ever met, but we do have a gazillion friends in common. At any rate, your videos starting popping up on my news feed and I would watch 30 seconds here and a minute there and before I knew it, I was hooked. You’re getting really good at this! Thank you for putting them out there and for putting yourself out there too. You have wonderful content delivered with such heart and caring. I’m a fan! Keep up the great work. All the best,

I truly NEED to recommend my LEGIT FAV SEX POSITIVE podcast…. Too Wild Orchids* NOW called SEXUnSHAMED

This podcast CHANGED MY LIFE.

This podcast has opened my mind might heart, my libido, etc. Stuff I was never comfortable sharing with other people because I thought I was the only one…

I thought I was alone. But I am not.

The idea of unshaming sex and sex talk and everything in between has been an incredible life changer.

I never realized how much I needed this podcast in my life until I came across it. I absolutely recommend this to anyone that is sexually active, has questions, want to experiment or just LEARN MORE.


With absolutely NO JUDGMENT…

Thank you for doing what you do. We hope to keep learning from following you.

I just listened to half of your podcast and will listen to the other half tonight. You have always been my hero and I have always resonated with you and learn from you. I just wanted you to know that at this very second I appreciate you so deeply. I am not the same little girl that you knew 15 years ago… My mind has opened and I have awakened. Please keep doing what you are doing because people hear you! You have that amazing presence that captures the on awakened parts of peoples souls.

I’ve been very insecure about myself and my marriage for about a year and a half, but your articles and podcasts inspire me to be more confident in who I am and be more sexy and that’s been a struggle.

I wanted to reach out briefly and let you know that I watched one day, a video of you and your son. In the video, your love of him and for him was simply amazing. I was amazed at how much you love him. It showed on the video. Now that I have spent the past several months with my son, I know how you feel. I am so excited to watch him grow and so devastated that he is getting older every day. It is a double-edged sword but I love every second of it. You set a great example as a parent in the way you look at your son and the way you speak of him. I am glad I had your example.